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| Myanmar Family |
The Burmese pride themselves on proper etiquette. Public
displays of excessive emotion, whether prompted by anger or by love, are
frowned on. Elders and others of a higher status, such as monks, should be
addressed and treated with courtesy. It is considered rude, for instance, to
pass things over the heads of seated elders. To show respect to grandparents,
parents and teachers on formal occasions, the Burmese kneel down with their
foreheads and elbows touching the ground. When passing a pagoda or meeting a
monk, they put their palms together in a gesture of reverence.
Burmese people are also very sensitive about imposing on, or
inconveniencing, other people. The fear of embarrassing others is called anade (AH-nar-Del). If you asked a
Burmese guest what drink you could serve him or her, your guest would probably
say, “Anything is fine” to avoid embarrassing you by asking for something you
might not have.
Close-Knit Families
Burmese households often consist of three generations. If
family members do not live in the same house, they usually live near each other
and visit often. Children learn to share and to participate in family life at
an early age. Siblings and cousins often share bedrooms. Children take part in
all social occasions, apart from funerals. In rural areas, they often run small
errands for adults or help out in the fields. All children are expected to
respect and obey not only their parents but all their elders. They are also
expected to take care of their aged parents.
Men and Women
In Buddhism, men have a higher status than women – Buddhists
believe in reincarnation, and a woman has to hope that, in her next life, she
is reborn as a man.
The husband is considered the spiritual head of the Burmese
household because of his hpon (PONE),
or spiritual status. In public, women let men take the lead, often walking
behind their husbands or fathers. At home, however, a husband usually hands his
earnings over to the wife, who manages the family budget and often runs her own
small business, too.
Women are excluded from certain areas of religious
buildings, such as the middle platform of the Shwedagon Pagoda. Despite the
hierarchy of Buddhism, however Burmese women have a quiet self-confidence that
comes from a tradition of independence. At a time when many women in other
parts of the world had no legal rights, a Burmese woman could choose whom to
marry, even if her parents disagreed. She could divorce her husband by putting
her case before the village elders, and if her complaints were fair, her request
would be granted. Today, just as in the past, a woman keeps the money and
property brought into a marriage. If she divorces, she keeps not only what was
hers before marriage but also her share of any money or property in the family
business. Women also have equal rights of inheritance with men. They dominate
the markets as traders of goods or food vendors. Today, there are many women in
professional occupations, too, working as doctors, dentists, lawyers, writers,
teachers, and scientists. At universities in Myanmar, female enrollment equals
that of males.
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| Walking men in downtown of Yangon |
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| Myanmar women at home |
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| Most popular country side ladies game in Myanmar |
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| Popular sport for men |
